One of my favourite lyrics is "Try a little tenderness" from Otis Redding.
Tenderness can come in many forms - whether it is genuine listening, compassion and kindness, or, the reason that probably brings most of you here -- cuddling :)
I think the most authentic side of ourselves comes out when we let ourselves be vulnerable, completely honest, let down our guard, and trust others. Being close to one another requires this. And when we do let go, and manage to have ourselves a good cuddle (or a hug, or even just a handhold), it can do all kinds of amazing things for our brain (hello dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin -- all the feel good stuff!), not to mention intimacy and touch is proven to boost our immune system, and help us sleep (cuddling is said to be more effective than sleeping pills!)
Ps. If you're lucky I may throw in a nice back rub - I've been told that I should consider becoming a masseuse ^_^
Pps. I will not answer to winks, or messages that just say "hey". Not interested in prolonged chats, just in prospect cuddlees who are serious about meeting and paying for the time they enjoy with me.