Friends often tell me I should teach the littles of the world. I've always been considered the mother bear in a group. I like to recycle and improvise with the resources around me. Music is also...
Friends often tell me I should teach the littles of the world. I've always been considered the mother bear in a group. I like to recycle and improvise with the resources around me. Music is also universally therapeutic and a big part of me. I can go from Alice in Chains to Ziggy Marley and everything in between without missing a beat. My driving forces in life are kindness and empathy. And of course, I do love to cuddle. One of my favorites is giving or receiving, 'tickle'. Some people call it 'rain drops', others more simply 'finger traces', and playing ones hair. Scalp to back, back of neck, up. Not in the same place for too long of course. For myself it's an instant anxiety reducer.
Eventually I'd like to get into snuggling the babies that need it either while in the hospital or foster care. I chose this direction because as I said compassion and empathy are my driving forces in life. The income is of course appealing but helping people is my end game.
Rate- $60 an hour. I do have a safety person in place and I will need to inform them if any extended time is requested. Additional fees for extended sessions will be collected up front.
*I accept cash, PayPal, SquareCash, and will be adding other options as I learn more. Currently I am only offering outbound sessions. If I am traveling an hour away from my home a $10 travel fee will be applied as that is about what it takes in gas to get to and from. Presently the maximum distance is 2 hours of drive time.
Dress- You know the rules. Clothing is a must. Minimum tank and shorts. Please do not try pull anything over. I do not offer refunds when such behavior occurs, and if I feel as though someone is taking advantage, I will cancel the session. I am a VERY patient person, though there will be no more than two warnings. Safety is also a top priority. I will most likely arrive in leggings or yoga pants, a tank and a light sweater or zip-up hoodie.
Arousal- IF this happens, do not be embarrassed, I do not judge. Just think of Grandma eating turkey at a holiday dinner and her dentures sitting on the table. Adjust yourself accordingly.
Relax- I am here for you. This is about you. Whatever the reason you have, is your reason. You can talk, I can listen. We can both talk. We can not talk at all. Just the other day while at a friends, they mentioned how comfortable they are when I'm there. They don't feel pressured to chit chat or have small talk while I am there. We can watch a movie, binge on some Netflix or Hulu (90s anyone?) More