Firstly, be comfortable with the task at hand. Someone is asking you to hang out or cuddle because they are missing human connection in their life or perhaps they simply need a companion to watch a movie. That being said, be sure the cuddlee is someone that you can be comfortable and safe with.
Safety should always be your number one priority. Choose a public location to meet first. Chat at a coffee shop, or grab a bite to eat. Remember, cuddling isn’t just lying on a couch together spooning. It also can mean simply meeting for a quick coffee or snack and enjoying each other’s company. As an additional measure, for your first cuddling session, consider letting a friend know where, when, and for how long you will be away and have them follow up with you after.
Upon meeting a cuddlee, be clear you know exactly where you are and how you are getting home. Plan how you will exit the premises in advance. Do not go anywhere unknown or where you feel un-easy. Safety must always be your top priority.
Ask yourself if you feel comfortable. Within minutes you should be able to recognize if the engagement is safe and headed the right direction for the purpose stated. If you feel the need to conclude things due to bad behaviour or have a bad gut feeling simply leave the premises and inform us of your experience as soon as you are in a safe environment.
If meeting at your house we suggest putting on some comfy, clean clothes and providing a relaxing, un-intimidating environment for the cuddling to take place. If you have any pets be sure to advise your cuddlee in advance to be courteous of potential allergies or fears. Again, comfort level is key when it comes to having a great experience.
Know some background information prior to meeting in person. Are they lonely? Have they recently experienced a divorce or break up? Maybe they are just wanting to experience talking to someone new. Know why they need someone to cuddle with. Be the best cuddler possible and understand people need this service for many different reasons. Understand why and try your best to help them through good communication or ethical touch.
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